A Picture That Tells A Story

I came across this picture while looking at a tumblr collection that had plenty of interesting stuff in it.  This one stood out because it seemed to cry out for an explanation of how the scene came about.

Obedience - Physical Things Matter

Obedience is supposed to be something that comes naturally to a submissive woman, and it certainly does to me.  But the fact that it comes naturally means it isn't something I have really thought about.  And the fact is, I am only obedient to men I find physically attractive, and physically  attractive in the right way.

Jen's Plan

Men don't have a chance sometimes.  Jen has had two dates with Mike and now she plans to move in for the kill. We had a long chat this afternoon, Jen, Jane and me, and have worked out the strategy.  He won't know what has hit him.

MMMFmffffff

One of my Twitter chums has been chatting up a new Dom.  He sounds like an interesting guy.  I offered the services of my friend Jen and myself to help tempt him.  I don't suppose I'll be taken up on this but it did lead to me thinking over the perfect party.

BDSMers have good mental health

A recent study shows that people who practice BDSM have good mental health.  I'd definitely agree there.  I think I am well balanced and have many fewer hangups than the vanilla people I know. Having recently watched my new friend Jen adopt BDSM, I wondered what she thought.  She says she feels happier and more relaxed than she had before.

So well done to the researchers.

I wonder if BDSMers should take over running things.  I imagine the Doms would like that.

http://www.livescience.com/34832-bdsm-healthy-psychology.html

Train Your Wife

Of course a lot of people would regard this as horribly sexist.  But are we really supposed to pick up how to be a good wife without training?

Jen's Date

Jen obviously enjoys being the regular partner in our threesome and has learnt a lot, but I think she is right to start looking for a serious relationship for herself.  Everyone needs a special person.  I think she ought to spread herself out a bit more. He search is split between going to the pub in town - where she knows everyone anyway - and Plenty of Fish.  But what do I know - I am not on the dating scene.

I like feminism, but I like orgasms too

There are lots of things on the internet about all sorts of things.  One thing people talk about is whether feminism and BDSM are compatible or not.  I think they are.  A lot of people think they aren't.  I don't know who is right.  What I do know is I get better orgasms with a dominant man.  So if it turns out that you can't be into both - I'll go for the orgasms.  But until someone proves otherwise I am going to be both a feminist and a submissive female slave.  

The Drill

Inspired by a video I found online I suggested to Master that He might enjoy training me to obey commands in a very formal way.  He agreed, and as I hoped also decided to see if his friends with slaves would like to join in.  They did.

Female Solidarity

I am a big supporter of female solidarity.  Sometimes you can please your master much better by co-operating.  Keep it up sisters.

Who Knows What Goes On?

There is a lot more spanking going on than a lot of people realise in my opinion.  I bet these fifties kids parents didn't know what was going on when their kids were playing ping-pong.  They all seem to be enjoying themselves.

Three in a bed

Choose your favourite.  I will judge you if you pick the wrong one.

French Humour

If you don't read French, the caption is 'he has given you a severe whipping. He clearly loves you.'

I like the cammaraderie between the two women.

Punishment should not only be done, it should be seen to be done

I think if you are being punished for something, it really ought to be in full view of everybody.  That is the best way to learn your lesson.

Historic Punishment for Upstart Woman

The Romans knew how to keep women in their place.

I think she'll be obedient in future.

Benefits of Discipline

I live the life I live because I find it hot and irresistible.  If it was harmful and destructive I would still be attracted to it, and I think would probably not have the willpower to resist it.  But apart from the risk of injury - which has never actually happened - and needing a larger wardrobe to cover everyday life as well as my home life most of the consequences of being a willing slave to a loving master are pretty positive.

I am partial to a vintage etching

I do like this scene.  I wonder what the story being illustrated is?

Jen's Progress

Update on how Jen is doing.  Back in February she knew nothing about being a slave.  Since then she has become a regular visitor and is completely obedient when she does so.  She says she enjoys being submissive.

Watching Someone Else Whipped

Dave has taken to a routine of a regular discipline session every evening before our evening meal.  He finishes work about 5 and now it is light we meet up in the gym afterwards.  Jen joins us if she is around.  We both strip naked and put on collars.  He then orders one of us to tie the other to the horse and administers whatever he is in the mood for - about 20 strokes usually.

Jen isn't always here, but he seems to have a preference for punishing her at the moment so I have had a few experiences securing her in place and then standing back and watching.  It is quite enjoyable doing the tying. It is very satisfying getting someone tightly into place.  Watching the punishment is arousing.  I know what it feels like to be in that position and I can judge how painful a particular blow is.  It is good to see the look on David's face as well.  I don't often get to see the determination and concentration on it.

It is also great to see the skin on the bottom going red.  I don't feel so bad about how big my bum is now.  It must look as good as Jen's does.

Jen visits

David was very pleased with me for getting Jen to visit (can't keep up the thing with calling her x).  She tried to look very cool when I let her in, but seeing me in my collar and cuffs and a t-shirt dress with obviously no underwear obviously surprised and interested her.

I introduced her to David in the dining room, and being David he got straight onto his favourite subject straight away - discipline.  I saw her pull a face when he explained that he thought that women needed regular discipline in a relationship, but she didn't argue.   I stood up for a while, then David signalled me to kneel, which I did with as much elegance as I could muster.

Dave asked if she had any questions.  She asked if  he really hurt when he hit me.  He said why don't you ask Mel.  He told me to stand up and bend over, which I did.   He took his belt off and gave me a couple of strokes.  He asked me how it felt and I confirmed that it hurt.

He invited Jen to see the punishment room.  He acted as if he didn't know that she had already seen it.  She didn't let on that she had.  He is so clever like that.  It meant that she was already half way there.  When we got down to it he ordered me to take my clothes off, then he secured me in place wrists and ankles.  His riding crop was down there so he gave me three whacks with it.  Boy did they sting.  Then he asked Jen to examine my bottom to watch the red lines appear.

"Do you think that that didn't hurt?"

Jen agreed that it did.  She hadn't actually questioned it, but he made out that she was doubting him.  Now he made the move I knew he had been planning all along.

"Do you want to see what it feels like to be in Mel's place?"

I would have loved to have seen the look on her face.  He unclipped me and told me to tie up Jen.  I hadn't expected that bit, but it was very exciting.  She took her clothes off without being asked while I was getting some cuffs, and soon she just where I had been.  Dave let her wait for about a minute then gave her the same three whacks I had had.

Of course I had forgotten that it takes practice not to cry out, and after the second and third she made a load of noise.  It was quite sweet.  Then Dave ordered me to release her.  We walked up to the living room, and when we were there Dave had us kneeling while he read his Kindle.  Then we went up to the bedroom.  First Jen watched while Dave made love to me, then I watched while he made love to her.  We all slept together in the same bed that night.

And that is how I got into poly.

About Miss X

Quick list of what I have found out about her (I am such an anorak.)

Age 27

Not very intelligent but sort of shrewd and maybe even wise.

Two sisters, one older one younger.  Doesn't keep in touch with either much.  Parents separated but on good terms.  Doesn't see her Dad very often.

3 ex boyfriends.  Not very happy with any of them.  One of them could only come by masturbating, which he did over her tits.  (Don't blame him.  They are rather nice.)  Other two were okay but one got bored with her and dumped her and other bored her so she dumped him.

Hasn't really explored sex too much.  Never been spanked.  Hasn't tried bondage.  Not even sure if she likes oral either giving or receiving.

Very negative view of men  (Wince)

Fascinated by idea of a Master slave relationship, but has never considered being in one.

Self conscious about her appearance and weight.  Doesn't think she is attractive to men.

No opinions on politics or religion.

Miss X Visits

Just a few minutes to spare to bring the blog up to date on my Miss X project. Dave is away for a few days and so I had a chance to get into town.  I plucked up the courage to invite her back round after work yesterday.

Miss X

I'd better keep her name secret.  It is a million to one chance she would come across this blog but you never know.

Miss X works in a jewellery shop in the nearest town.  It is a quiet shop so I have had a chance to talk to her a few times.  She is about my age, maybe a shade older but she is much more grown up.  She didn't go to University and lives on her own in a flat above a shop in the same street that she works in.  She is blond and blue eyed like me, and is really pretty.  She is a little plump, but even so I can't believe she hasn't got a boyfriend.  This is the only hard fact I have about her at the moment.

I am not even sure she is heterosexual - it is hard to ask without appearing bigoted.  But we are now on first name terms and that it the first stage.  Next I must found out about what she does and where she goes.

Riding Crop

David bought a riding crop a few weeks before Christmas.  He has used it a few times and it hurts like fuck.   He explained his reasoning to me today.  His idea was that it wouldn't mark as badly as the cane so he could get a clean bottom back more quickly.  He prefers it when my skin is unbruised and he can enjoy bringing some colour to it.

It has been successful he says, and now he is going to try and use it several times in the same week.  The first session is tonight, and he is planning another on Wednesday.  It is interesting the way Doms' minds work.  A lot of thought goes into it all.

A New Year - New Challenges

So a new year.

There is so much that I have learnt over the last year.   After years of dreaming about it, I have now spent a year as a slave to a wonderful man.  It came more easily than I expected, mainly thanks to Him.  I hadn't expected it to lead to so many friendships as well, but I am now part of a small community of like minded people.