tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82165530189246258422024-03-05T09:51:57.646+00:00Mel's MoodsMelliDexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09662957914225824207noreply@blogger.comBlogger63125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8216553018924625842.post-21047880181190045542017-12-17T17:58:00.002+00:002017-12-17T17:58:30.146+00:00My Ideal World - Bringing Up Young WomenI wrote an account of my early life a few years ago which covered the period up to when I drove off with Dave. At the time I intended to follow it up with what my life with Dave is like. But as in so many things the moment was lost and I can't seem to get back to it. But I have learnt a great deal from Dave and have now developed a new way of looking at things. And one of the things I have been thinking is what kind of life would I have ideally had.
This is quite a flight of imagination because I don't just want a different life in the world we live in.<br />
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I want to live in an entirely different world where things are organised along completely different lines.<br />
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I want to actually live in a world where male superiority is a fact and is enshrined in the way things are.
One of the points of this fantasy world is that this is a world where men actually are superior. They are more intelligent and better looking than the actual men in the real world. So I am not saying that what I want has any relevance to anything other than my desires.
The men are in control and they are the ones who enforce discipline. There is a hierarchy here of course. The older men are respected for their wisdom and the younger ones defer to them.<br />
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The men would all be physically very active and would have the kind of calm courage that you can rely on.<br />
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Women are slaves from birth and remain so. They are brought up to be obedient by their parents, and their parents find them Masters at around the age of 16. This gives the Master plenty of time to mould them to their will.
So what would be the details of how a girl would be brought up? Obviously the father would be the first disciplinarian, and would keep her in line as she was growing up.
There would be a period of time between puberty and being handed on where she would need to be strictly drilled. I think that his would need to be very much the duty of the father.<br />
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The object of the process would be to instil a deep level of obedience into their minds. They should become slaves first and above all in their minds. This comes easily to some of us of course. I think it is the natural condition of women in many ways. But it is still good to reinforce it with continual practice and regular discipline.<br />
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Although every Master will ultimately be in control of his slaves and will have total freedom to do what he wants and lay down any rules he chooses, I do think there will be some norms that all slaves should be inculcated with to get started with.<br />
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For a start there is getting used to wearing a collar and cuffs for prolonged periods of time. This is something that women should be wearing more or less continually for their adult lives, so it is best to start early. Getting familiar with being secured for prolonged periods is the natural next step after this. <br />
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There is also the question of punishment. In theory an obedient slave could go years without requiring any physical punishment if she never does anything wrong. But I don’t regard that as a healthy situation. You always feel more submissive after a session of corporal punishment. This is something that needs to be maintained so regular application is necessary.<br />
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I’d suggest that between the ages of 16 and 18 this should be reasonably intense. A daily experience of the cane and the crop would not be excessive. A minimum of 20 strokes sounds about right. A weekly set piece whipping - either secured to a cross or strapped to a bench would be very beneficial. This could be anywhere between 50 and 100 strokes to make sure it really sinks in.<br />
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This weekly one could well carried out in public in small groups, if only to get public punishment established as something normal.<br />
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I have written before about how I met Dave and how he got the impression that I was a lot more experienced than I really was, and how I played along with it. This meant that I ended up with my first experience of being whipped taking place on my first night in his hands. He had been doing this kind of thing for many years. He was well equipped. And he knew how to inflict pain at a pretty intense level. So my first time was perhaps rather more special and memorable than it would otherwise have been.<br />
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So it was very late at night - I wasn’t keeping track but I guess about 1am in the morning. We had driven from London which would have taken 50 minutes. He has a fully fitted out dungeon - though it is on the top floor rather than underground and during daylight is very well lit. But this time there was only a table lamp. And the wall which has the restraints is black marble, which isn’t as cold as you imagine but it is still quite a shock to naked flesh. I say this because the first thing he had done was order me to strip.<br />
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I was not as embarrassed by this as I might have been given that the light wasn’t too strong and I had had a couple of glasses of wine. He very firmly cuffed my wrists and ankles and attached me to the wall face against it. I was in a spread eagle position and it was all I could do to stop myself crying out from the cold touch of the marble.<br />
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So there I was - tied in place while this man who at this stage I hardly knew got out his long single tail whip and practised a few strokes through the air. I had no idea how I would take it, even if I would be able to bear more than one stroke. The first one fell on my bottom. This is always Dave’s favourite target, but I didn’t know that then. Boy did it hurt. I had no conception of just how painful it was going to be.<br />
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It was all I could do not to cry out, but somehow I managed to stay silent. But that was it, as the second fell I yelped. The strokes started to come regularly, about every 20 seconds, and to fall across the small of my back and my shoulder blades as well as across my bottom. The pain was intense and searing. It really was unbearable and I struggled and squirmed. It was pretty undignified and not at all how I wanted to behave. I had always imagined - and I had thought through this scenario many times in my head - that I would be cool and simply accept what was being doled out.<br />
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The session continued. At one point I realised that I was tied in such a way that I could in fact barely move. I was a steady target. Moving was pointless. In fact I was barely moving. But I had no self control.<br />
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In the car on the way there he had asked me how I coped with being whipped. I had replied nonchalantly that I was happy so long as the person in charge was careful and knew what they were doing. I had added that I didn’t want any mercy shown me. It was a casual throw away line meant to impress this older and more sophisticated man. It hadn’t occured to me that he was taking notes to decide how to play things a little later.<br />
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But I didn’t use my safe word. I didn’t even ask him to stop. My pride got the better of my good sense. <br />
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When he eventually stopped - around a hundred lashes later - he very quickly unsecured me. He ordered me to kneel. I obey quickly. There is one good thing about getting whipped - it certainly makes you obedient. The he pushed his cock into my mouth and held my head. He took a while - he is in his early fifties after all - but soon enough he came in my mouth. This at least I had done before. MelliDexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09662957914225824207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8216553018924625842.post-17180505677398373592017-01-21T20:50:00.000+00:002017-01-21T20:50:16.940+00:00Selecting Masters And Slaves<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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Once again I have been thinking about the BDSM enclave that I think someone should set up. Specifically I have been thinking about how the different categories of person should be filled. I think that only about 10% of the males can be dominant. They would have to be identified as the natural born leaders at around the age of 18 - maybe after two years in a school designed to both educate and select the best ones.
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They'd need to be intelligent and well read. That could be selected by an exam. They'd also need to have good physical fitness, especially muscle strength and stamina. So they'd need to train for these things and keep up that training in later life.
Girls would have to be educated separately and learn basic discipline.<br />
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They would need to be used to punishments and being in various forms of bondage. I think about 20% of the population would be slaves and they would be selected simply on breast size. The ones with the biggest breasts would be designated as slaves. I think that big breasted women are the most submissive and obedient as it happens, but in any case those will be the ones that the men will want as slaves.MelliDexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09662957914225824207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8216553018924625842.post-56509420906478913502016-05-15T15:21:00.000+01:002016-05-15T15:22:11.107+01:00Advantages Of Being A Slave<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Well I have to say that Jen has taken to being submissive really well. Looking back over the last two years the changes have been amazing.<br />
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1. She used to be really dismissive of men and pretty disrespectful to women. She is now very good company for anybody, and listens carefully to what people say. As a result she is a lot better liked and has more friends. I have a feeling her recent promotion at work was something to do with it too.<br />
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2. She has lost nearly two stones and now has a really nice figure. I think the fact that her bottom gets looked at a lot nowadays has a lot to do with it.<br />
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3. She dresses much better and puts her makeup on a lot more carefully. She really doesn't look like the person she used to look like at all any more.<br />
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4. She can now bring a man to orgasm in her mouth more or less at will. This was someone who wouldn't even perform oral sex before she got into submission.<br />
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I don't think that is a full list, but it will do to be getting on with. Not a bad set of results for what basically is no more than doing what your told and submitting to regular corporal punishment. <br />
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I really think the advantages of being a slave to a good master aren't discussed enough. I know that Jen is a lot happier - she often says so. Dave is also happy and very confident. I suppose knowing he has a woman available to carry out his every bidding must be good for that. Again, he has just got a promotion as well. Maybe the leadership skills he has picked up in the bedroom have come in handy.<br />
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The great thing is that it all comes so naturally. You just follow your instincts and you end up with a life that you love.<br />
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I don't know what the future holds for Dave and Jen. They seem very happy together so I imagine it will be marriage bells and a long life together. But if they split up, I have a feeling that Jen has the skills to get a new man and to make him very happy to have her.<br />
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There is no way that men can be the kind of effective strict disciplinarians that I think they should be unless they work hard on themselves. They need to be fit and strong. They need to be able to inflict pain on their slaves without succumbing to pity. And they need to have the skill to handle the whips, the belts and the manacles to hold the objects they are disciplining in place.
So in my ideal BDSM enclave there would need to be a programme in place to keep the men in trim for their role.<br />
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On a regular basis the younger men would need to attend training sessions to practice and be instructed by older and more experienced masters. I'd think that Saturday mornings and Wednesday afternoons would be suitable - though as a submissive I shouldn't like to have too strong an opinion on it.<br />
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The practice areas would be permanent and would be equipped as fully as needed. They'd also need some slaves to practice on. It wouldn't be a good idea to use this kind of session as actual punishment, so the slaves would have to be simply nominated to be available.
So I could imagine myself sitting on a bench watching as the older men give the younger ones tips on techniques. They could also observe and critique them in practice.<br />
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So they'd need a steady stream of bodies to be chained in place for the whips to work on. It would be necessary to inspect the flesh regularly to get the idea of how things are working.
Of course it would also be good practice for slaves in how to behave when being punished. They'd obviously have to be polite, dignified and respectful throughout. So all in all, the benefits for everyone involved would be well worth having.
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But this weekend he did manage to thoroughly humiliate me. I simultaneously hated it and found it exillarating. But the details.<br />
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Yesterday we drove nearly 100 miles for a social gathering with four other couples, none of whom I had met before and who Dave only knew vaguely. The theme of the party, which was in honour of the host's 45th birthday, was to pick which wife had the nicest breasts.<br />
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The first part of the evening was just a buffet with drinks and chatting and getting to know each other. I was quite a bit younger than everyone else so I probably didn't fit in as easily as the others, but it was okay. All the wives were wearing collars so we had something in common.<br />
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About nine the woman were sent into a back room to strip off. We then filed back into the living room and stood in line with our hands held behind our backs. The men then rated our breasts by giving us each a score out of five, written on index cards. Dave had the job of totting up the numbers and announcing our scores. He has a good voice for public speaking so he did it well.<br />
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Luckily I won. Mine were the biggest as it happens, though I think it was the fact that they were about 15 years newer than the others that probably swung it. The losers were gagged and had their hands tied behind their backs and had to spend the rest of the evening kneeling along the wall. My prize was to sit down at the table with the men. We had a rather nice shepherds pie to eat that had been in the oven while the contest went on.<br />
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Dave and I then left. I think there was more planned for the rest of the guests but we had a long way to go home.<br />
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My thoughts? I don't think I would like to make a habit of it, but it was quite good to get used in this way. It's all part of being a slave.<br />
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On the far right the story is similar, but he is just guiding her efforts letting her do more of the work. Next to him the woman with the long blond hair is having to do all of the work. The man is younger, less experienced and less used to using a woman to give him what he desires. He seems more interested in what is happening to his left.</div>
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And well he might. This woman has completely taken the initiative and is holding the man's cock skilfully and is probably using her expertise to give him a most satisfying and arousing suck. Her very enthusiasm is evident by the way she is holding her body more erect than the others suggesting she is taking her duties more seriously than her sisters.</div>
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How did the scene arise? I imagine these are four guests invited around for dinner to discuss business. Big business. The kind of business where making sure they go away satisfied is paramount. The master of the house is no doubt watching the whole scene carefully to make sure his hospitality is appreciated. I imagine that the performance of the women will be monitored. Any of them that fails to delight their customer will no doubt end up feeling the whip later on when the guests have left, darkness has fallen and nobody can hear the screams.</div>
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Obedience is supposed to be something that comes naturally to a submissive woman, and it certainly does to me. But the fact that it comes naturally means it isn't something I have really thought about. And the fact is, I am only obedient to men I find physically attractive, and physically attractive in the right way.<br />
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This is going to sound really shallow, but there are some really non-negotiable things here. He has to be taller than me by at least 2 and preferably 3 inches. He doesn't have to have the face of a greek god, but he does need to be fairly good looking. And he needs to be fit and active. I can't stand someone who slouches.<br />
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It also really helps if his cock is reasonably big. I just can't imagine submitting to someone not so well endowed. <br />
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So judge me for my shallowness if you like, but that is how it is.<br />
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Men don't have a chance sometimes. Jen has had two dates with Mike and now she plans to move in for the kill. We had a long chat this afternoon, Jen, Jane and me, and have worked out the strategy. He won't know what has hit him.<br />
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They are meeting for a drink near her flat. When he has relaxed she will invite him back. They have only kissed so far, but when she was saying goodbye last time she checked out his package. He was interested - hand full interested.<br />
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So the game plan is simple. Get him back to her place. Get him sitting down, and as soon as possible get his cock into her mouth. She has had plenty of practice over the last couple of months - he is in for a treat.<br />
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Then get him into bed. Then the speech. 'I realise you are so good looking you could have the pick.' 'I'll do anything you want me to.'<br />
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Then move on to the relationship builders.<br />
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'I think men should take the lead.' 'Tell me what to do if I am doing something wrong.' 'I'm just an old fashioned girl.'<br />
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If that works praise his strong arms. Praise his penis. <br />
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If things continue to go well, make allusions to how he should impose his discipline on her. Just to be really optimistic, have handcuffs and blindfold handy. <br />
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I think it is a good plan. Jane was really helpful - she knows what makes men's minds work. I can't wait to hear how it goes. Mike looks like a normal guy from what I have heard so far. Does he have secret desires? Or can he be turned? Should know in 2 days time.<br />
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One of my Twitter chums has been chatting up a new Dom. He sounds like an interesting guy. I offered the services of my friend Jen and myself to help tempt him. I don't suppose I'll be taken up on this but it did lead to me thinking over the perfect party.<br />
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I think you need a few more subs than Doms. I'd go for mainly male dominants - they are just so much better at it - but I think a Domme for variety would be good. I'd imagine she'd be the most striking person to look at in the ensemble. I think that women deep down are a lot more severe than men, with other women at least. So she'd be good as the ultimate threat.<br />
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Six subs would be enough that they'd be competing with each other for attention and praise. So that should ensure that they would do their best. The drawback would be the possibility for bitchiness and gossip. But hopefully the Doms would stamp that out.<br />
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I did wonder about a uniform for the subs, but decided that nakedness would be more likely to meet with the Doms approval.<br />
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Oh and we'd need a male sub. Someone with plenty of muscles but not much brain would be good. Someone has to sort out the catering and do the washing up.<br />
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A recent study shows that people who practice BDSM have good mental health. I'd definitely agree there. I think I am well balanced and have many fewer hangups than the vanilla people I know. Having recently watched my new friend Jen adopt BDSM, I wondered what she thought. She says she feels happier and more relaxed than she had before. <br />
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So well done to the researchers.<br />
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I wonder if BDSMers should take over running things. I imagine the Doms would like that.<br />
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Of course a lot of people would regard this as horribly sexist. But are we really supposed to pick up how to be a good wife without training?<br />
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Jen obviously enjoys being the regular partner in our threesome and has learnt a lot, but I think she is right to start looking for a serious relationship for herself. Everyone needs a special person. I think she ought to spread herself out a bit more. He search is split between going to the pub in town - where she knows everyone anyway - and Plenty of Fish. But what do I know - I am not on the dating scene.<br />
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Anyway she seems to spend ages talking to unsuitable men on PoF. But I suppose it is a numbers game. Trawl through enough and eventually you'll find one. Anyway after weeks of trying she has finally found someone who she wants to meet and who wants to meet her.<br />
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She hasn't decided what she is going to tell him yet about what she has been getting up to this year. I think honesty is the best policy, but there is no need to be honest straight away up front.<br />
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Anyway he looks good in his picture, has a good job and if he wrote his own profile he is pretty articulate. There is nothing to suggest any kinky tendencies, but I don't suppose that means anything.<br />
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She is worrying about every aspect. What she should say to him, what she should wear, is she too fat for someone that good looking. I hope it goes well despite all this. I am going to be picking her up afterwards so I'll be the first to hear all about it.<br />
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There are lots of things on the internet about all sorts of things. One thing people talk about is whether feminism and BDSM are compatible or not. I think they are. A lot of people think they aren't. I don't know who is right. What I do know is I get better orgasms with a dominant man. So if it turns out that you can't be into both - I'll go for the orgasms. But until someone proves otherwise I am going to be both a feminist and a submissive female slave. <br />
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Inspired by a video I found online I suggested to Master that He might enjoy training me to obey commands in a very formal way. He agreed, and as I hoped also decided to see if his friends with slaves would like to join in. They did.<br />
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It was basically very simple. We were all naked except for collars and cuffs on our wrists and ankles. All the collars and cuffs had rings for easy securing. We stood in a line and obeyed whatever command the Dom in charge issued. We had five pre-agreed positions.<br />
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The Drill in the event was very simple. We all arrived at Robert's house. Gill met us at the door and took our coats. The other subs and me went up to Gill's room where we got ready. Getting ready wasn't difficult as basically it was just taking our clothes off and putting on our cuffs. (We were all already wearing our collars.)<br />
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We had a while to chat. We all enjoyed looking at some fresh bruises on Jane's bottom. It was very intimate, all having this thing we shared.<br />
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We were called down and lined up in the dining room. I was on the right hand side.<br />
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The four masters took it in turns to issue commands. It was soon evident that they particular enjoyed having us kneeling. Jane was judged to have been the poorest performer and was publicly spanked. It was a bit unfair, as the guys agreed. Everyone had done well and it was only because they had decided beforehand that was what they were going to do that made them go ahead with it.<br />
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Choose your favourite. I will judge you if you pick the wrong one.<br />
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If you don't read French, the caption is 'he has given you a severe whipping. He clearly loves you.'<br />
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I like the cammaraderie between the two women.MelliDexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09662957914225824207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8216553018924625842.post-48199456542992704052014-04-15T14:53:00.000+01:002014-04-15T14:53:00.231+01:00Punishment should not only be done, it should be seen to be done<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I think if you are being punished for something, it really ought to be in full view of everybody. That is the best way to learn your lesson.<br />
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I live the life I live because I find it hot and irresistible. If it was harmful and destructive I would still be attracted to it, and I think would probably not have the willpower to resist it. But apart from the risk of injury - which has never actually happened - and needing a larger wardrobe to cover everyday life as well as my home life most of the consequences of being a willing slave to a loving master are pretty positive.<br />
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1. A Healthy Diet. My master decides what goes in my mouth. He isn't a food fadist and we don't eat anything out of the ordinary. But he does make sure the number of calories we both eat is not excessive and we don't overdo the processed foods. (Though he likes a microwave curry from time to time and the odd pizza.) As a result I have dropped about a stone in weight since I moved in and since the weight came off it has stayed off. I can only blame my big bum on genetics now.<br />
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2. Not worrying about whether I am doing the right thing. He decides, so I know I am pleasing him.<br />
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3. No lingering arguments. We do sometimes disagree, but it is always resolved.<br />
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4. Making some great friends.<br />
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5. Dull things can be made exciting. Particularly cleaning.
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I do like this scene. I wonder what the story being illustrated is?<br />
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Maybe she was disrespectful to her husband's friends, and he has invited them to witness how he deals with it.<br />
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Update on how Jen is doing. Back in February she knew nothing about being a slave. Since then she has become a regular visitor and is completely obedient when she does so. She says she enjoys being submissive. <br />
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She has lost some weight and started to dress a bit more smartly. She now arrives on time when she said she would - she was very unpunctual initially - and has even got praise and promotion at work for her 'attitude'. She says that she was completely unaware of these things but appreciates them.<br />
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As a result of her experience she has now changed her attitude. She is still comtemptuous of men she has had relationships with. But she thinks that submitting to a master as a slave is a very healthy mindset that works for her. <br />
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She still has some work to do. She still doesn't have much poise. She still argues sometimes when told to do something. But basically she has gone from being an ordinary woman, and rather a slovenly one at that, to a disciplined slave. Dave is exceptionally good at this sort of thing, but even so I am very impressed.<br />
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Jen isn't always here, but he seems to have a preference for punishing her at the moment so I have had a few experiences securing her in place and then standing back and watching. It is quite enjoyable doing the tying. It is very satisfying getting someone tightly into place. Watching the punishment is arousing. I know what it feels like to be in that position and I can judge how painful a particular blow is. It is good to see the look on David's face as well. I don't often get to see the determination and concentration on it.<br />
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