Obedience - Physical Things Matter

Obedience is supposed to be something that comes naturally to a submissive woman, and it certainly does to me.  But the fact that it comes naturally means it isn't something I have really thought about.  And the fact is, I am only obedient to men I find physically attractive, and physically  attractive in the right way.

Jen's Plan

Men don't have a chance sometimes.  Jen has had two dates with Mike and now she plans to move in for the kill. We had a long chat this afternoon, Jen, Jane and me, and have worked out the strategy.  He won't know what has hit him.

MMMFmffffff

One of my Twitter chums has been chatting up a new Dom.  He sounds like an interesting guy.  I offered the services of my friend Jen and myself to help tempt him.  I don't suppose I'll be taken up on this but it did lead to me thinking over the perfect party.

BDSMers have good mental health

A recent study shows that people who practice BDSM have good mental health.  I'd definitely agree there.  I think I am well balanced and have many fewer hangups than the vanilla people I know. Having recently watched my new friend Jen adopt BDSM, I wondered what she thought.  She says she feels happier and more relaxed than she had before.

So well done to the researchers.

I wonder if BDSMers should take over running things.  I imagine the Doms would like that.

http://www.livescience.com/34832-bdsm-healthy-psychology.html

Train Your Wife

Of course a lot of people would regard this as horribly sexist.  But are we really supposed to pick up how to be a good wife without training?

Jen's Date

Jen obviously enjoys being the regular partner in our threesome and has learnt a lot, but I think she is right to start looking for a serious relationship for herself.  Everyone needs a special person.  I think she ought to spread herself out a bit more. He search is split between going to the pub in town - where she knows everyone anyway - and Plenty of Fish.  But what do I know - I am not on the dating scene.